When we are young we make decisions mostly based on emotions. Either out of a passionate desire or out of immediate anger, we make choices that at the moment appear necessary. With age comes inevitable wisdom. With wisdom come patience and a deeper ability to utilize the mind to make a more informed decision. Without such wisdom, our decisions may often become regrets and in extreme instances, long-term guilt. Please, feel with your heart, and judge with your mind and above all, decide with a combination of both.
Often the best decision is to remain and get our head straight and clear before making any change. In a situation that is uncomfortable, it is often best to identify the issues and determine if anything can change before choosing to depart. Many times if you look for solutions they present themselves and the previous situation grows a brighter light. To leave before this often creates an eternal question and guilt of what might have been.
The Journey of a thousand miles 